I don’t understand anymore. Nevermind, I never understood. And the thing is, when dealing with interpersonal conflict, I never will. I will never, ever understand what the other person is thinking. Which means I can’t understand how they react. I can only accept the facts and act accordingly.
“It’s not knowing that hurts so much. If I could understand, if I could, then it would be all right again…
-Why do we have to understand? Has trying to understand been so wonderful?
Milan Stitt “Runner Stumbles”
“[That is arrogant…]
-To know the truth and to understand it?
-Yes, with respect, Commander, I think it is…[a]n arrogance, and perhaps, an impertinence.”
P.D. James The Private Patient
“What will happen will happen, whether I wish it or no. So, yes, I accept. It does not mean that I like it or wish it were not otherwise.”
Kate Mosse Labyrinth
P.S. The woman speaking in this song is on the board of AWFRI (and Shad K’s mother). That is her personal story she is telling. I am in love with this whole family.